Everyone Has a Gem in Their Life, Right?

If you don’t know me, then babes come say hi! I promise I won’t bite. But… I want to warn you that if we are friends then you’ll hear a lot about a precious gem in my life. Her name is Ruby Sage and she is my sister. I literally love this girl to the moon and back. In my opinion there is no else on this living planet that is prettier than my sister. Sorry not sorry.

Okay, let’s be so for real now ya’ll. Everyone has a gem in their life. You know, that special someone you unconsciously. The one you involuntarily start looking for in a crowd, even if you don’t mean too. Or heck, it’s the person you turn to when you need a shoulder to lean on. The one you know will answer when you call and listen without judging, or at least if they do judge, it’s in a kind protective way, maybe. Except, my sissy is still learning how to answer my calls the first time (when she isn’t at work), but that’s not the point. 

We all have those people or that person. But… Now I have a question for you. Why did you choose them? What makes that person so special, that you place them in a secret category apart from everyone else? What did they do that made you put (almost) all your trust in them?

Actually to be honest I didn’t think I had someone that special to me. That was until someone ‘kindly’ pointed out that I talk about my sister constantly. Which I don’t. Only about 80% of the time, and only when it is relevant. I promise you, I’m not that obsessive. Wait no. I’m not obsessive at all. I just love her, y’all. We have a strong bond. At least I hope. 

Okay back to the point of this entire blog. Basically, I’m curious to know if you know who your gem is? Have you ever even thought about it? Or have you taken them for granted? Do you realize how much they mean to you, or how much trust you are allowing them to hold? 

Because in reality, I took for granted how much I loved and depended on my sister. I never knew how close I held her until she left for college and wasn’t by me 24/7 anymore. She wasn’t in her room next door able to hold me when I needed to cry or help me when I was stuck. Now I have to call and hope she answers the first darn time, but I wish it wasn’t like that. So, come on babes! Figure out who your gem is and let them know how crazy special they are. 

Cause everyone has a gem in their life, right? Or am I just a crazy little white girl? 

K, byeeeeeeee!

 

Author: ava caroline

Society plays with pressure, boundaries, and ‘norms’ all the time. But where is the fun in that? Why let society write your story when you have the pen? Instead I’d like to live “be[ing] hated for who I am, than loved for who I’m not” (quote by Kurt Cobian). With that being said. Welcome! No one is forcing you to stay, but if you’re still here, I can’t wait to share the things that make me happy, curious and what I've chosen to write over what society thinks.

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