Guys, I love the feeling of having a crush. It’s been quite some time since I’ve had a serious crush on someone, but we are SO BACK!
Theres this boy that I’m so interested in. He likes a lot of the things I like, and he’s so sweet. I don’t have to pretend to be someone else around him, like at all.
Even if we don’t talk romantically, I’m okay, he’s one of the greatest people I’ve ever met. He’s respectful, and so so so so so so nice, but he’s also funny, and unserious.
He doesn’t pretend to be someone he’s not and always keeps it real. I know I’m so obvious about liking this boy, but I don’t know if he hasn’t said anything because he messes with it, or because he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings.
There is ONE thing he does that kind of irritates me, but it’s too specific to state here. Anyways, yes crushing season is afoot. I think at the moment, why I’m not saying anything to him about it is because: 1.) I don’t want to mess anything up, 2.) I’m 99% sure it’s one sided, and 3.) It’s too early to tell.
I feel like if I was to tell this individual, and he for some reason does feel the same, I would be lost on where to go after that. How do we even progress from there. I just haven’t been in something truly healthy in so long, that it’s like how do I do this?
But like I said, he’s the sweetest ever, so I don’t have a doubt in my mind that we won’t be able to be friends after whatever happens happens.
Look, me personally, I’ve learned to let God take control, and I’ve been praying about it. Somehow, without fail, every time I pray about this situation, the next morning something happens that makes me want him even more. Maybe it’s a coincidence, but The Artists Way said not to believe that.
I just am kind of stuck on where to go. Here’s the possible outcomes I’ve thought of:
1.) I don’t tell him, and he’s not interested in me- Saves our friendship, makes me lead myself on.
2.) I don’t tell him, and he’s interested in me- Throws away my shot, leaves me with “what could have been,” leads us both on.
3.) I tell him, and he’s not interested in me- Possibly ruins our friendship, hurts my feelings, embarrassing.
4.) I tell him, and he’s interested in me- We get together, get married, and live in a house with a garden holding 1,000 ladybugs.
5.) He confesses to ME- Same outcome from #4.
To the normal, untrained eye, this may seem a little… much, but trust me guys…
Either way it’s I get hurt, or I have the best time of my life. I mean feel free to leave your advice, or opinions in the comments.
Well, that’s a wrap on today’s blog, I’ll probably be back with an update next week. Thank you, guys, for reading! Bye!
Omg I’m so happy that you have a crush. Crushes are so so fun!
Thank you!!! And yes, yes they are!
If he’s really a good friend, telling him won’t hurt your friendship. I know you so I know you probably aren’t gonna ever say anything, but if someone backs away from a friendship JUST because you go “Hey I like you, but we don’t have to date we can be friends!! I just wanted to let you know,” then that’s not a very good friend. I believe in you Sarah Box-on-the-Side-of-the-Road, you got this
GUUULP. I think I’m going to tell him soon! Thank you, the BIGGEST Nick.
I really love this blog because it goes with the detail of what teenagers all over the world struggle with on a daily basis. We question ourselves so often but sometimes we just have to take the first step and make the hard move even if it feels like the worst thing ever, and when I’m at a loss for words I just pray about it first, as you said letting God take control.
Thanks for the comment Lydia, and yeah it literally does feel like the worst thing ever. God’s plan, not mine, right? <3
As someone who’s never dated anyone or really had a crush, I’m not the best in this department. But good for you, I think it’s pretty sweet.
Thank you Lily!
I dont really feel crushes myself, since I’m aromantic, but i’d say don’t let the feelings fester. Having a crush on someone is a very strong feeling, and it guides a lot of people’s lives these days. Like Nick said, if this guy really is your friend and you confess to him and he doesn’t feel the same, he’d be in the wrong to not want to be your friend anymore! I say don’t let this feeling or experience go to waste, and dont hurt yourself waiting for the “right time”, because it may never come and you’ll only feel down. It makes me happy to know that you’ve been praying about it, too. :))) Much luck and much love Sarah <33
Thank you so much Danny!!! I love you so muchh!
We have talked about this, and I feel like you should do what you feel best, but I do know anyone would be lucky to have you
Thank you so much!!