So, I’m doing something new as always lol, but let’s see how I can start it out or put it in words? Ok so people would think the best thing to do when you have a problem is to either fight it out, talk about that person, or spread rumors about them. That’s not the way at all! I know it can be hard to go up and try to talk it out with the person about what’s going on. Sometimes people would try to be the biggest person but yet they won’t do any good. No, it would, it’ll do good for you. By being the biggest person and showing how mature you are, and it shows that you’re willing to work things out and save your friendship or relationship.
I can say I know from experience that staying quite far too long and letting everything get more and more worse. Sometimes people could talk about the problem but not with the person they got the problem with. That can lead to even more problems. The person you go to, to talk about the problem, says they are your friend, but they’ll go back and tell people what you’ve been saying then next thing you know it’s a problem with that friend.
Then it might be good to talk to your friend that you can always talk to. They would tell you the right thing (hopefully). If your friend tells you over and over aging to go talk it out with whoever you have a problem with 9 out of 10 it’s because they know something or they feel like it’s the right thing to do and, in my experience, it was both but hey I learned my lesson. I talked it out and it was then on top of that I felt a lot better after.
You shouldn’t hold anything in. When it comes to you feeling some type of way or even just thinking, it’s best to always talk to somebody. Most people would sit and listen. It depends on how that person is but always try to understand where others are coming from and help them see where you are coming from in the problem. Because if you don’t, I’m telling you this right now you might regret it, and I don’t think you would want that so just talk it out and let things go.
Well, that’s it for this blog, until next week!!
Since I know what your talking about, I’m not going to say to much, but I’m very glad that you are handling it maturely! Love you!
That’s a very mature perspective Jaleigha. Goes to show how much you’ve grown out of petty teenage girls’ drama to becoming a mature woman with a more futuristic approach by using your past experiences.