Something new to the blog

As you can see in the title, I’m going to talk about something, something I think I just need to get off my chest. So, for the past few days I been feeling lost and I don’t know what to do for real. So, I guess in a way I’m helping for some help. I know the blog supposed to be about fun things, but I wanted to do something different if that’s ok.

So basically, like I said I’m feeling lost, I would normally do some of my anxiety exercises, but I don’t think they would help, tried listing to music that didn’t work, I even tried writing that didn’t even help. I tried everything that I know but nothing helping, and I don’t feel like I can open up to people for real, they just use what every I tell them against me. I been so stuck on this one problem that I just think that I’m the problem but at the same time I know I’m not the problem.

I’m good at helping other people out with they problem, like I can give out some good advice when it comes down to me helping out with my friends, but I can’t help myself out, what type of stuff is that? So, it looks like I’m have to listen to what y’all have to say, I’m try I don’t even listen my sister for real lol, but I’m trying to take y’all advice.

I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing by just ignoring the problem or if it’s the wrong thing. I know people say you have to face your problems, but the thing is, I have tried but yet I feel like I’m not being understand and that makes me even more mad. Y’all pls just give me some advice. What should I do?

Author: Jaleigha Williams

Heyyy!! As u can see my name Jaleigha some of my friends call me Leigha or Ladybug lol. My fav color is blur, pink, and purple. My blog going to be talking about different things, like movies I thought I wouldn't like, I'll be taking bout trust, love, and how some things are in the world in my eyes. I'm not that good in writing just yet so not to much y'all lol I'm get there hopefully. But yea welcome to my blog guys💕.

4 thoughts on “Something new to the blog”

  1. You should really take some time to rest. The weekend is coming up, so take that time to yourself and rest. Rewatch a favorite movie or something, drink water, and eat something that’ll make you feel happy. There’s a lot of new pressure here and a lot of stimulation. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Take the breaks that you have, talk to the people that you love, and don’t forget to take care of yourself.

  2. You can always talk to me about that stuff girl, I’d never use it against you. I think you should have a go-out night with all your girls (and or boys,) and try to be carefree for a night. It might help you reset. I love you Ladybug, and you got this. Prayers!!

  3. I’ve been in this situation a BUNCH of times. Sometimes this can happen when you have a lot on your plate and especially more stressful when you have friend groups. You have friends who see you as outgoing and funny and they tend to pull you away from work and time you need to dedicate to your craft, it’s not a bad thing to have these friends, but too much of it can cause an overload. It’s never a bad thing tell someone you need a few days to recuperate and let your brain rest for a few days, taking on tasks one at a time. If they keep pressuring you, if they keep pulling you away its for THEIR benefit and not yours. Thats where you start assessing if they’re really a friend. They give you a “Well yeah I am, BUT” that’s an example of manipulation.

    I found a balance with friends who helped me work and when we finished our work, we always made plans to hang out sometime if our work was too overloading, sometimes the company just helped me too if they didn’t have any work.

    So, I extend my hand to you, if you need anyone in this literary room or even me, come find us and I’m I can Guarantee we’d be more than willing to help, especially me.:]

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