Social distancing and mental health

As of writing this, it’s been:

27 days since I last saw MSA

23 days since I vacationed in Florida for spring break

20 days since I’ve hung out with friends

14 days since I’ve began self quarantining


For this week’s blog, I want to talk about how the past few weeks have effected me mentally. I know that everyone is kinda going through it right now, so I wanted to put my own thoughts out there just to let you know I’m going through it as well and you’re not alone.

I’m been trying to distract myself with some sort of technology or doing schoolwork, but ultimately, I’m just bored. And I’m bored, I have no choice but to just think. I end up thinking about the friends and family that I haven’t seen or heard from in awhile. I think about all that’s happening on the news. I think about all the things that I’ve wanted to get done at home and now that I have the free time to do them, I’m unmotivated.

This time alone with my thoughts as made me realize that I take a lot for granted. Mainly, I take MSA and my friends for granted. I have actually never wished that I was at home or back at my old school while at MSA, but now that I’m stuck at home, I’ve realized that I’ve taken a lot of my independence and the resources of MSA for granted.

I also have become unmotivated. There are days that I wake up and just want to lay in bed and stare at the ceiling all day until the sunsets. I know that this isn’t a healthy mindset, but a lot of boosts in my mental health have come from seeing friends and hanging out with them.

Sure, we still FaceTime and play games online together, but it’s not the same.

But of course, now that I’ve spend enough time alone and away from the rest of the world, I’ve begun finding other things that make me feel better.

Things I’ve begun doing in quarantine to keep me busy:

  • Finding free videogames or old videogames to play
  • Watching movies that are out of my comfort zone
  • Walking in the evenings when it’s cool outside
  • Cooking and baking
  • Gardening
  • Making YouTube videos again
  • Finding new TV shows to watch

I hope that you all are also finding new ways to keep yourselves entertained. We’ll make it out of this soon! I miss and love you all!

– Addison

Netflix Recommendations.

Okay, so in light of the terrible, terrible social afflictions brought about by some chick named Corona, a l o t of time has been spent on Netflix. And sometimes, it’s hard to find something to watch when it feels as if you’ve already watched everything.  So, here I am to put you on some dope shows and a movie that I love and that I hope you’d love.

So, first. American Horror Story.

So, there is no secret that this is one of my absolute favorite shows in the entire world. And there’s so much diversity in this show. Like, honestly. Every season is something new and they all coincide. It is a horror show, though, so there are many different situations where it can get much. But if you aren’t faint of heart, then I genuinely recommend it. But do your research before watching it.

Second, Total Drama Island.

Now, Total Drama is a show for the ages. Originally Canadian, this animated series is a hilarious spoof of survival reality tv. It follows the 22 campers that have to endure insane and dangerous challenges weekly. It isn’t really rated for a younger audience, but a good recommendation for anyone 14+.

Up next, One Day At A Time (2017-)

One Day At A Time is a sitcom that follows the life of Penelope, a newly single Army Vet. and her Cuban-American family. Y’all…this show is so good. It kind of reminds me of the show Mom, but it’s different because, although it doesn’t cater to younger audiences, they can still learn communication skills and things of the such. Besides that, though, this show is so good at reeling you into the story so that you feel like a part of the family. Such a good show.

My third recommendation is Self Made.

Now, I haven’t finished Self Made and that is due to it being new to Netflix. But, from what I have seen, Nicole Jefferson Asher really popped off. This limited series chronicles the incredible story of Madam C.J. Walker, the first black, self-made millionare. With a cast that includes Octavia Spencer, Tiffany Haddish, and Carmen Ejogo, you already know the acting was top-notch. Overall, an amazing show thus far.

Last, but certainly not least, is Joshua: Teenager vs. Superpower.

Joshua: Teenager vs. Superpower is a 2017 documentary about a teen rallying thousands of kids our age to occupy the streets when China’s Communist Party breaks it’s promise of autonomy is Hong Kong. I personally really liked this one, not only because it documented a shift in history, but it shows what we, teens and preteens, can do. We are extremely powerful and Joshua is a testament to that.

 

I hope you watch these and get inspired to create, to evolve, or to change the world. Are there any movies/ shows that you really like? I’d love to hear them! Until next week. 🙂

Bremont’s Farm

Hi all! As we sit in quarantine and twiddle our fingers, I have decided to share one of my flash fiction stories with you all. I know some might not care, but this is one of my newer pieces and is more on the traditional side of my work. I toned down the dramatics and wrote a story like none of my other work. Give it a read, leave some edits, provide some feedback! Enjoy this little “quarantine read.”

Bremont’s Farm

My daddy always wanted me to come visit my grandaddy’s farm. He would tell me stories upon stories about the things he did on that farm. My favorite story was when he almost cut half the harvest crops because he got to drunk and thought they were little goblins in the field. Oh, the whoopen my grandaddy laid on him must’ve been so great. Now that I have reached the able age of 21, I’ve decided to take up the offer and stay at my grandaddy’s farm for a few weeks before coming back here to work. I’ll miss seeing the bright, shining lights outside my window when nothing filled my room but darkness. I’ll miss hearing the obnoxious chatter of whatever poor, New Yorker passed by my window. I’ll miss the city. Albeit, I won’t be gone for long, but this will be my first time out the state since I was a little girl.
Traveling down south won’t be an easy trek. With the distance between New York and Louisiana, I’ll be sitting on this train for hours. I have some activities to keep my interest, but I know at some point I might just lose my marbles. The old lady behind me keeps asking me questions about my hair and how I keep it so clean. Everytime I think I’ve ended the conversation with her, she somehow comes up with a brand new question. Once I heard the voice over the intercom call out, “We will be arriving in Louisiana in 10 minutes. I repeat, we will be arriving in Lousiana in 10 minutes,” I damn near jumped out of my seat.
Stepping off the train, I suddenly yearn for the smell of gasoline and cologne. I see no tall buildings, barely any people, and the silence around me slowly fills my entire body. I miss home. I miss everything about it, but I suck it up and begin my journey to the Bremont Farm.
After walking for what felt like 2 hours but was really 20 minutes, I see my grandaddy standing tall while leaning against the “Bremont Farm” sign infront of the driveway.
With open arms, I gather him in a hug. “Hey there grandaddy. I missed you”
His deep, southern accent filled my ears and my heart at the same time.
“There’s my little blackberry. Here I’ll take your bags while you go freshen up for dinner. Your Aunt Claudia is in the kitchen breaking down her roses for her homemade jam. She said she could use your help.”
I simply smile and nod my head while trying to remember who my Aunt Claudia is. I vaguely remember hearing about her, but nothing to match a face to.
As I finish cleaning myself up, I walk into the kitchen and saw a woman I’ve never seen before.
“Aunt Claudia?”
She turns around with a wide smile on her face.
“There she is. His little blackberry. Come, come!”
I laugh and walk further into the kitchen before she shoves a knife in my hand.
“Start cutting down these rose petals into their smallest size. Put them in the jar and shake!”
I do as I’m told and get to work. I spark up the conversation to end the deafening silence in the room.
“Why does he call me that?”
She lookes at me puzzled. “Call you what sweetie?”
“His little blackberry. Why does he call me that?”
She lets out a wide smile.
“Have you ever heard the saying, “the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice?”
I think for a minute.
“It sounds familiar, yes.”
“Well, when you were born, you had such a rich, dark skin tone. It was flawless. He said it looked like the color of a little blackberry, hince why he calls you that.”
I smile at myself and at the new found information. I look up to the window infront of us and see grandaddy walking with my bags. Like he sensed me watching, he turned to the window and sent me a bright smile. I look down to the rose petals and smile ever wider. I’m glad I chose to come here. I see what my daddy saw and I intend to make some great memories here.

a time of growth

So lately, I have been up in my head 24/7. I have been trying to figure out the meaning of life, my purpose, etc. But my community has helped me realize that I need to take time for things I enjoy too, like writing, drawing, being in nature. I mean, it’s gotten so bad that I’ve been forgetting things. So with that being said, I want to take a moment to appreciate the little things in life, and share some things I have learned over the past few weeks.


Y’know, it’s quite ironic how it’s Spring. This is because we are all growing, just like the flowers. We have been blossoming, opening our buds until we are complete. Perhaps, this has been your time of growth. I know it has been mine. I have had many experiences in these past few weeks, and have learned so many lessons. Let me share some:

  1. Take time for yourself: We can get so caught up pleasing others, doing work, that we forget to take a little time for ourselves each day. Taking time for yourself is not a selfish thing, rather it will help you maintain yourself. And trust me, people can tell when you are running low on steam. So please, take yourself into consideration each day.
  2. Don’t assume things: Sometimes we think we know what people are thinking, or that people should know what we’re thinking, but that’s where the problem is. We must communicate with one another to truly understand each other. I can’t tell you how many times I have let my mind wander off in assumptions, instead of getting the cold hard facts. Remember, communication really is key.
  3. Writing things down is a blessing: We live in a fast paced world where everything is go go go. When we are going 100 mph how in the world do we expect ourselves to remember everything. We really can’t. That’s where writing things down comes in handy. Put down what you need to accomplish, your goals, etc. and you can always look back to see what you may have forgot about.
  4. A soft heart is not weak: I personally have quite the soft heart, but I am also a very strong individual. People think it’s showing weakness when you cry, but really it shows that we are human. We each have a story, and we should start taking that into consideration.

Maple <3

 

A spring break in New York ft. the Coronavirus

As many of you may know, my spring break was spent in the iconic and beautiful New York City. When we first got there, the Coronavirus wasn’t nearly as serious as it is now, so we got to do everything we hoped to. But as our trip progressed, the virus was closing more and more attractions to the public, and the day after we left everything was shut down. It was difficult to have the best time we possibly could with all the uprising news about it being shoved in our face and the anxiety of bringing it back to the south. Luckily,  it didn’t show too much severity until towards the end of our trip, so I got to enjoy most of New York stress free.

1st day: Monday

The day we got there, we didn’t have much planned so we walked around the city for hours going shopping and seeing the sights I’ve seen so many times in movies. It was so amazing seeing all the people from so many different cultures as we went to Little Italy and rode the subway (which was actually pretty gross and I will never do that again). We spent hours in Little Italy eating at the best restaurants and trying amazing desserts and after we headed back to where our hotel was. Our hotel was in the heart of Times Square, so we stayed out till about 11 pm sitting on the infamous red staircase in the center of all the blinking billboards and thousands of sky scrapers. I felt like I could stay there forever.

2nd day: Tuesday

The second day we were there, we slept in quite a long time because we had nothing planned that morning and later in the afternoon, we went to the well-known Museum of Modern Art or the MoMa. Which is the museum to hold one of the worlds most prized possessions: the original “Starry Night” by Vincent van Gogh. While there was a lot of interesting and lovely art there, this was by far one of the coolest sightings in New York. After the museum, we went to a quaint French restaurant near by that was both expensive and exquisite. Apparently a popular thing in New York is French onion soup, which is one of the things we got while there. It was wonderful.  The next thing planned on this day was my favorite part of the whole trip– Hamilton. This was the second to last day before Broadway closed down, so we were lucky to see it. I have been listening to the Hamilton playlist for months in preparation to see it performed and it was everything and more that I had hoped for :’)

3rd day: Wednesday

We woke up early on Wednesday to take a tour of the most popular icon in New York– The Statue of Liberty. She doesn’t look that big from the city, but once you get to Liberty Island and see her up close, it’s a whole nother experience. We climbed 10 flights of stairs to get to the pedestal on which she stood, which didn’t phase me all that much since I live on the 7th floor at school and take the stairs fairly often. After the Statue of Liberty, we went to Ellis Island which is directly across from Liberty Island and learned about my ancestors that passed through the very building I was in as immigrants. My great, great grandmother, Katherine (Katie who I was named after), went to Ellis Island to become an American citizen in the early 1900’s and we saw her records and where she signed her name as she filled out her papers in the building we were in. It’s so amazing to think I was in the same room she was in as she came to this country from Germany, barely speaking English.

After Ellis Island, we went to get some of the famous pizza that New York is so known for, and with that being said, New York has the best pizza I’ve ever had. We then went to see the 9/11 memorial which was such somber experience. I got chills as I saw the white roses placed on the black marble by the engraved names and felt so much empathy for those who lost a loved one in this horrible tragedy. I think it’s wonderful that such a tragedy has been marked by a beautiful memorial with sparkling waterfalls and white roses– a place where you can’t help but feel the reverence surrounding you. 

4th day: Thursday

The fourth day was our last day there and we spent it shopping, eating the biggest and best plate of pasta I’ve ever had in my life, strolling the paths of Central Park, and seeing the breathtaking views from the top of the Roc (Rockefeller Center). By this day of the week, a lot of things were being shut down and our options were becoming more and more limited, but we still managed to find things to do.

5th and last day: Friday 

By the time our trip was at its end, I was so in love with the city and hated to leave it, so I took my time waking up and packing… which made my mom very mad at me. We only had a few short hours to spend before we needed to leave to New Jersey for our flight, so we made sure to spend them well. We walked back to Central Park and walked past so many famous museums and other buildings that I’ve seen in so many movies and tv shows. On Friday, It felt like we were locals and knew our way around the city pretty well which added to the experience and really help make it what it was.

In conclusion: 

Despite people being scared to be around me because I went to New York after the recent outbreak of the Coronavirus, my experience was so worth it and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

btw guys, I don’t have Corona.

Have a great week, wash your hands, and stay safe <3

 

 

WMH: 9 Women Who Inspire Me

Hey guys! I hope everyone is enjoying their time off amidst the worldwide chaos. Fortunately, it is still Women’s History Month, and I’m still celebrating, so for this week’s blog, I will be discussing 9 women who inspire me (in no particular order).


Ashley Graham
Ashley Graham

Plus-size model and body activist, Ashley Graham has been one of my “she-roes” for quite some time now. She rose to fame in 2016, after appearing on the cover of one of Sports Illustrated’s Swimsuit Issues as the first plus-size model. However, I first discovered her on social media. I was 14, and summer was fast approaching, so I was searching for bathing suits that I thought would hide the fact that I didn’t have a perfect “bikini body”.  Naturally, I took to Pinterest, and searched for “plus-size swimsuits”. As I was searching, I kept seeing this woman in all these cute bikinis. The best part— she looked like me. I’d never seen anything like it— a woman who was not a size 2, in a bikini, loving her body. For some reason, the concept was foreign to me, to actually love my body even though it wasn’t a certain size or shape. After that, I Insta-stalked her for hours. I even printed out photos and news articles and hung them everywhere in my room. Ashley Graham was the first stop on my journey to loving my body, and if weren’t for her, I might not be the person I am today.

Most recently, she’s just given birth to her first child and become a mother. While pregnant, Graham didn’t skip a beat. She was working nonstop with modeling, her podcast, her swimsuit line, and staying healthy and taking care of herself for her unborn child; Graham did it all. Now, she’s taking the mommy game by storm and documenting it on social media every step of the way. She has no shame is sharing in her “mommy struggles” as she is seen breast-pumping in an Uber, changing her son in the middle of a Staples store, and even breastfeeding at a coffee shop. Baby Graham has one phenomenal mom, and I can’t wait to see him grow up, as she raises him in the best way possible.

Chrissy Teigen
Chrissy Teigen and her family

Similar to Graham, Teigen has also been featured on the cover of Sports Illustrated and is #Mommygoals. However, despite her very successful modeling career, I only learned of her as John Legend’s wife. My mother is huge fan of him, so I also became a fan. I remember watching his music video for his song,  “Stereo,” and thinking it was risque, but also how strangely captivated I was by the woman who starred alongside Legend. I didn’t think too much of it though, and eventually, I had stopped listening to Legend. A few years later when Legend released his hit “All Of Me,” I watched the video, and I realized that it was the same woman who had been in the video for “Stereo”— Chrissy Teigen. Except this time, I knew they had to be a couple with the song’s lyrics and their behavior on screen; it went beyond acting for a video. From then on, I Googled everything there was to know about Legend and his leading lady. I fell in love with their love story, and soon after “All Of Me” was released, the couple wed. I purchased their wedding issue of People magazine as soon as it was released, and I cut out photos and hung them on my wall with all the other people who’d inspired me.

Now, Teigen is known as the clapback queen on Twitter for her witty tweets and sarcastic comebacks, especially with President Donald Trump, or lack thereof now that he has her blocked (if you know, you know). Teigen is also the mother of two, and has been open about her fertility struggles and IVF journey. She is truly killing the mom game and adding some humor along the way. She’ll forever inspire to me to love unconditionally, to be transparent, and to laugh often.

Priyanka Chopra
Priyanka Chopra

One of my more recent stans, Priyanka Chopra, is one of the most successful actresses in India, starring in over 50 movies since her career began. Chopra got her start when she won Miss World in 2000. After that, the movie roles started piling in. Currently, Chopra is one of India’s highest-paid celebrities, but more recently, she’s starred in some American films and is known for her role on the television series, Quantico. However, I learned of her in 2018, after her marriage to The Jonas Brothers star, Nick Jonas. People magazine covers most celebrity weddings, so it was no surprise that the Jonas-Chopra wedding was plastered on the front cover of the magazine. The couple had two ceremonies— traditional, Christian and Hindu, meant to serve as the two cultures uniting, honoring both of their beliefs. The wedding not only honored them both, but it was quite possibly the wedding of the century. The couple exchanged vows in a Christian wedding set in India. They both wore Ralph Lauren, and Chopra had a 75-foot veil that was carried by 6 people. Following, they had a traditional Hindu reception where Chopra wore a red lehenga.

Jonas-Chopra wedding

As a person with multicultural heritage, seeing a wedding like this is inspiring. It’s so beautiful to see two people from different backgrounds and faiths come to together, bound by love and mutual respect for one another. Not to mention, the 10-year age gap, Chopra and Jonas share. With so many reasons that could be interpreted as incompatibility, the two embrace it and love each other regardless.

Mariska Hargitay
Mariska Hargitay

Mariska Hargitay has had quite an impact on my life. In 1999, she made her debut as Olivia Benson in the Law & Order spin-off— Law & Order: Special Victims Unit. Despite airing before I was even born, the show was an early favorite, as my mother and I share a love for crime shows. This show, however, is more than just another crime show; it’s life. The stories depicted in each episode are stories in which many people can relate. As the #MeToo movement is progressing, the show is too. It’s talking about things that aren’t being talked about enough in times like this, and it’s been doing so for the last 20 years. The cast just recently celebrated their 21st season, making it the longest-running series in America, and they have signed on to  do 3 more seasons (which my mother and I will be faithfully tuning in to every Thursday night).

Hargitay says the show turned her from “actor to activist”. Outside of the show, she is a rape crisis counselor. In 2004, she started the Joyful Heart Foundation, a nonprofit that aids victims of sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. Hargitay may play Olivia Benson on screen, but she has a little of her off screen, as well.

Mary Lambert
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Mary Lambert

Mary Lambert is a singer/songwriter, poet, and advocate for crying, body positivity, and LGBTQ+ equality. When I first heard Lambert, it was in collaboration with Macklemore and Ryan Lewis. She performed their LGBTQ+love anthem, Same Love, alongside Madonna, at the 2014 Grammy Awards, where 33 couples wed. I was just 10 years old watching the ceremony, so I didn’t have a clue what was going on, but I was still vibing with the music. It wasn’t until a few years later that I heard Lambert’s song “Body Love“. I’d never heard a song with spoken word or that had so much depth and so much honesty. I listened to it almost every day after that, and I remember immediately downloading every song she’d ever released after that. I even watched every interview and poetry slam she’d ever done on YouTube. Then, I stumbled across her performing her piece, “Epidemic,” that was about sexual assault. I remember crying and thinking that that’s what I wanted to do. I always thought writing about trauma made me damaged or like there was something wrong with me, but when I heard Lambert turn her trauma into something beautiful, I knew then that I wanted to write poetry.

In 2018, Lambert released her book, Shame is an Ocean I Swim Across. I went to my local Books-a-Million the week it was released and bought a copy. I read every single poem twice in two weeks. Then, I bought the audio book, and it changed everything. To hear her words in her voice with the soft piano playing added so much depth to her art. It meant so much more. Her book inspired and continues to inspire me every day.

In 2019, Lambert released an album after 5 years of having no record label. She recorded and produced the album all on her own. It is entitled Grief Creature, and it is quite possibly the best record ever released, or at least, the most beautiful. Of course, these are my opinions, but the album features spoken word with songs about trauma and healing. Although it’s not mainstream, it is valuable and honest. Listen to the album on YouTube— you won’t regret it (be sure to bring tissues).

America Ferrera
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America Ferrera

From Real Women Have Curves to The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, America Ferrera has taught me to love and appreciate not only my body, but my culture. However, she is most known for her role in the 2006 series, Ugly Betty, in which she won an Emmy for Outstanding Actress, making her the first to do so. However, lately, Ferrera has been activating and advocating. She was a speaker at the 2017 Women’s March on Washington, a founding member of the 2018 Time’s Up movement, a partner in The North Face’s Move Mountains initiative, an advocate for the protection of people in the DACA program, and much more. In 2018, she published a collection of stories titled: American Like Me: Reflections on Life Between Cultures that features first-person narratives of life experiences between cultures. In doing all this, Ferrara also found time to star in the NBC comedy, Superstore, and have 2 children. She is, by definition, a “superwoman”. Ferrera may have played ugly Betty on screen, but she could never be anything less than phenomenal.

Lina Esco
Lina Esco

Lina Esco is an actress, director, producer, and activist. She’s not very well known, but some may know her for her role as Miley Cyrus’ best friend in the film, LOL. You may have also seen her star in the movie, Free the Nipple. However, many people don’t know that Esco founded the Free the Nipple campaign and directed and starred in the indie film inspired by it. The campaign advocates for the accepting of women baring their breasts, both legally and socially, as there is a double-standard. It is okay for men to walk around shirtless in public, but women aren’t allowed to in most states and even if they are, they’re shamed for it; women are even often shamed for breastfeeding in public. These are the things the campaign fights against. In Esco’s film, based on true events, a group of vivacious women come together to fight the marginalization of women and they do so by forming rallies and protests backed by prominent figures. From the message, the impact, and the cinematography, it is a truly inspiring film, and I encourage you to watch it; however, there is nudity, so be cautious.

Esco is one of those phenomenal that isn’t talked or heard enough about. She is creating change in our society, and it should be recognized more. Esco inspires to fight for what I believe in and to use my art to further my advocacy.

Amina Mucciolo
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Amina Mucciolo

Amina Mucciolo is an Instagram influencer and YouTuber. Mucciolo is quite the woman. She is fabulous, fierce, and unafraid to be herself. Before she was an influencer, she was an aspiring writer. However, when that didn’t pan out, she moved to L.A. where she now owns and operates a design studio that sells party favors, tutus, and other crafty knickknacks. However, it wasn’t all rainbows and unicorns for Mucciolo, as she battled with bulimia and depression most of her life. Mucciolo is open about her struggles and how she turned her life into a “pastel paradise” after facing hardship.

Mucciolo is so incredible and quite possibly, another me. Her story and confidence inspires so much. It’s not often that you see a grown woman wearing rainbow dresses and tutus just to go to Target, but with Mucciolo, that’s her norm.

Kesha
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Kesha

Kesha Rose Sebert, more commonly, Ke$ha, is a singer/songwriter who is most known for her hit single, “Tik Tok”. However, to me, she’s an absolute queen. From glitter her on her eyes to Jesus on her necklace, Kesha is unapologetically herself. She’s known as the “party girl” with her electro, dance pop music. However, Kesha went on hiatus in 2014, after entering rehab for an eating disorder. Shortly after she was released, she filed a lawsuit against her producer, Dr. Luke, for sexual assault and battery. This has been an ongoing public lawsuit for years, but Kesha returned to music scene in 2017 with the release of her album, Rainbow, that not-so subtly said that the 30-year-old was no longer that party girl the world once knew. When the first single, “Praying,” released, the world was taken aback, as it was the first music she’d released in years, it was not her usual style, and the song lyrics strongly suggested it was about her legal battle with Dr. Luke. In an interview, the singer said this about the album, “I felt like Rainbow was a time and place to address some more serious things.”

Now that Kesha’s addressed these issues, she hasn’t slowed down any. In January, the singer released another album— High Road. This album is different from her party girl style, but not quite the same as Rainbow. In this album, Kesha has dark brown hair and her style is a bit grown up, as if saying that she’s still that party girl, but she’s grown up now. On one of the tracks, she even featured “old Kesha” with the dollar sign in her name.

No matter which direction Kesha decides to take her musical stylings, she will forever be an icon to me. She has always inspired me to be myself and to love myself. I still remember 10-year-old me listening to “Tik Tok” on repeat with glitter on my eyes. I’ll always be a #Animal.

Frida Kahlo
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Frida Kahlo

Frida Kahlo has been a role model of mine for as long as I can remember. I don’t know I learned of her because she’s not someone you learn about in school, which is really saddening, because she’s such an amazing woman.

You might know her as a famous Mexican painter or as Diego Rivera’s wife, but these weren’t always the roles she inhabited. Being disabled by polio, as a child, Kahlo beat the odds and had a bright future ahead of her. When she was 18, she was on her way to med school to be a doctor, but then she was in a terrible bus accident. This left her unable to walk or move for a year. While she was bedridden, her father bought her a paint set and easel, as she had mobility of her hands. While healing, Kahlo continued to paint. When she learned to walk again, after being told that she wouldn’t, she continued painting. She said that it was her passion and it distracted from her pain.

In 1929, Kahlo married Diego. Their tumultuous relationship is one that is studied by many historians and anthropologists. Kahlo’s art reflected their marital problems, as well. One of her more famous pieces, “Henry Ford Hospital,” is an evocative one that portrays her miscarriage and feelings of being unable to have children due to her ailments. This piece was so powerful because, at this time, women didn’t talk about issues like this or the feelings they felt, and Kahlo painted it— and with so much emotion and truth.

Frida Kahlo was an incredible woman, artist, and activist. From her scarf-braided her to her signature unibrow, Kahlo was a woman ahead of her time. Her art was powerful and raw; it explored themes that weren’t being talked about or explored. Her work inspires me to write and talk about the things that aren’t being done already, to create change, to fight for peace, and to embrace my heritage.


These are just 9 women who inspire me daily. There are billions of inspiring women, and if I could write about them all, I would. But since I can’t, I hope this piece inspired you to write about the women who inspire you or taught you about an inspiring woman that you didn’t know about. Happy Women’s History Month!

Quarantine got me like…

I’ll let it be known that this post will be an exclusive look into the chaos that is currently unfolding in my brain in the current climate of the world. I don’t want to stick to the normal path that this blog could take (I.e. what have I been doing during the quarantine?, how has it affected my family?) I want to simply release my mind. Ideas will be thrown, questions will be asked, answers might not be given. See this as an unwinding of the mind. Maybe this will encourage you to do the same…maybe not. It helps me a lot when I just let go of all the random thoughts in my head and what I think about them. This is my madness…enjoy…

  1. Am I the only one highkey freaking out over the Corona Virus?

Yall. This is scaring me. I get sick 2-3 times a year around the same time and I honestly can’t afford to get sick or show any symptoms of the virus. I think the best option is to practice good cleanliness and simply staying to myself. Self quarantine and social distancing is what will get us through this.

2. Why do I feel seriously connected to my cat, Kit?

I have spent so much time in the house, I’ve started to feel a connection between my cat and I. I feel as if we both are trying to sleep our problems away and eat in between them. She has influenced a lot of lazy habits lately and with each day passed, I feel like we both are slowly falling into the same routine…the same lives. Truth be told, everything I do, Kit pretty much does the same in her little cat-like way.

3. The new music I have found is quite exquisite.

So, with all the free time I have accumulated, my journey to discovering new music is currently still going. I have found some gems on this journey and I have no doubt that I will find some more. This time at home has allowed me time to actually explore the music of different artists. I can sit by myself in my room in my bed and just listen to new music. It all has worked so well in the past weeks. I can only imagine what new music will cross my path during this time home.

4. Is the time slowly slipping away from us?

I woke up the other day, totally thinking it was Tuesday for some reason…but it was literally Friday. It didn’t feel like a Friday. It felt like a Tuesday. That is so weird. When I think it’s like 12 or 1 in the afternoon, it really is like 2 or 3 like??????? Where has this displacement came from? Is it my recent lack of routine? I have felt so much out of place lately and it is messing with my mental a little bit.

5. Twitter is top tier content.

If you don’t have a twitter…you should probably make an account. That app holds some of the best comedians I have ever had the chance to see. The jokes people are making in the midst of a global pandemic have had me ROLLING on the floor everyday. Not a hour passes where I’m not checking my twitter. Honestly, it is kind of unhealthy, but yolo!

6. I’m desperately missing the big bathroom MSA provided to us.

Oh how mad I am that I took the bathrooms in the dorms for granted. I didn’t appreciate the space they provided. The ROOM it provided to do things. I miss the big, clean mirror. I miss the ability to lock the doors…inside AND out. I miss the shelves I had to put my stuff in. I miss it all.

7. Cranberry juice and yogurt give me LIFE

My favorite quarantine snack so far. It fills me up and for some reason will put me to sleep. I have had this almost everyday this week and last week. I’m honestly so surprised I haven’t finished the box of juice and yogurt yet. If you don’t like these…you’re missing out…like…on a lot.

That’s all I have to share with you all today. Trust that there are plenty more random thoughts being passed around in my head. This was a good reliever on those thoughts. I already feel my head is a bit clearer.

How is your mind during this quarantine?

COVID-19 facts and happy thoughts!

I don’t have to explain to you what’s been happening in the world, I know that you already know. Personally, I’m sick of hearing about it. COVID-19 is all over the news and its all everyone is talking about. It has shut the world down and taken over our lives.

However, I am severally uneducated about it. Amid the chaos, I decided that I wanted to do some research on the virus while also finding other things to things that could bring me some hope for the future. So if you’re like me (badly out of the loop and craving some reassurance), then here are some happy thoughts and COVID-19 facts (sources and links included @ bottom!)


Image result for corona in wuhanThe Origin of COVID-19

2019’s coronavirus disease (COVID-19) is a respiratory illness that spreads from person to person.  It was first identified in Wuhan, China in December of 2019. General coronaviruses originate in animals and are usually not transmissible to humans. If you have a dog, chances are that they’ve been vaccinated for some sort of coronavirus (such as canine respiratory coronavirus). Occasionally, a coronavirus can mutate and pass from animals to humans. This is why health authorities in Wuhan believe that the virus was transmitted to humans by contact with animals at a live animal market in the central city of Wuhan.

Chinese President Xi Jinping waves to residents who are quarantined at home on March 10.

WUHAN TODAY

China has announced that it will lift the lockdown on Wuhan on April 8 after two months of being sealed off from the outside world.


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How COVID-19 Spreads

COVID-19 is spread between people who are within about 6 feet of each other when an infected person coughs or sneezes. It is also possible for a person to become infected by touching a surface or object that has the virus on it and then touching their own mouth, nose, or their eyes (but this is not thought to be the main way the virus spreads).

People dressed as Smurfs — a Belgian comic franchise centered on a fictional colony of small, blue, humanlike creatures — attend a world record gathering of Smurfs on March 7 in Landerneau, France. (Damien Meyer/AFP/Getty Images)

The World’s Largest Gathering of Smurfs

In the small town of Landerneau in northwestern France, more than 3,500 people in blue body paint crowded together in a parking lot on March 7th to dance in conga lines to disco hits chosen by a Smurf DJ. Although some of the biggest cities in Europe were going on lockdown to prevent the spread of COVID-19, the village of Landerneau was hoping to earn a spot in Guinness World Records for “Most people dressed as Smurfs”. And they did!

The event also garnered several comical quotes:

“We must not stop living. It was the chance to say that we are alive.” – the mayor of Landerneau, Patrick Leclerc

“There’s no risk, we’re Smurfs.” – Smurf gathering attendee

Link to video


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THE SYMPTOMS

May appear 2-14 days after exposure:

  • fever
  • coughing
  • shortness of breath
  • tiredness

Emergency warning signs:

  • Trouble breathing
  • Persistent pain or pressure in the chest
  • New confusion or inability to arouse
  • Bluish lips or face

*This list is not all-inclusive. Please consult your medical provider for any other symptoms that are severe or concerning.


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HOW TO PREVENT IT

You can prevent the spread of COVID-19 and stay safe by practicing “The Five”:

Also:

  • Wash your hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds. When using hand sanitizer, use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer that contains at least 60% alcohol (these kinds kill viruses).
  • Clean and disinfect frequently touched objects and surfaces.
  • Practice social distancing! You may not be at risk of dying from COVID-19, but other people in your community are!

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FREE TIME!

Obviously being stuck at home isn’t ideal, but it does free up enough time to finally complete tasks that you’ve been putting off. Read a book, watch a movie, or start a new tv show! The possibilities are as endless as they can be when you’re not allowed to leave the house.

Personally, I’d recommend going outside. Walking long trails, even just going for a lap around your neighbor, is a great way to get out of the house and still be practicing social distancing. And if going outside isn’t for you, then maybe Facetiming your friends might be! If your friends all have iPhones, then you can early have a group FaceTime from your group chat. If not, then apps like Discord and Skype allow you to see and talk to your friends and family from almost any device!


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WHO is at risk?

Although everyone of every age is at risk of getting the coronavirus, people ages 65+ and people with pre-existing medical conditions (such as asthma, diabetes, heart disease) appear to be more vulnerable to becoming severely ill with the coronavirus. People with weak immune systems and people who are in close contact with someone with COVID-19 (healthcare workers) are also at risk.

Below is a chart documenting cases from February 12 to March 16 in the US:


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COVID-19 in the US

The first case of COVID-19 in the United States was reported on January 21, 2020. As of March 23, there are 44,183 cases throughout the US.


Treating Covid-19

Vaccine – There is currently no vaccine to protect against COVID-19

Testing – Every US state is providing testing for COVID-19

Treatment – There is no specific antiviral treatment for COVID-19. People with COVID-19 can seek medical care to help relieve symptoms.

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WHAT NOW?

As of now, it can appear as though this coronavirus pandemic is neverending. I, however, don’t believe this to be true. People across the world are working hard every day to get the situation under control. Should you be worried? No, just cautious. Take this extra time off to take inventory of your life. What/who have you taken for granted? What can you improve or work on while practicing social distancing? If you’re struggling with isolation and the lack of social interacts, just hang in there and know that this won’t last forever!

Staying safe, stay connected, and stay informed!


Coronavirus 101: What We Do — And Don’t — Know About The Outbreak Of COVID-19

Coronavirus (COVID-19) from CDC

Coronavirus In China: Over 200 Cases, Human-To-Human Transmission

Coronavirus Vaccine for Dogs

French mayor defends Smurf rally

COVID-19 Myths Busted

Mortality Rate

Symptoms

our seniors

     From the time I was in kindergarten to now, my junior year in high-school, I have known how much everyone looks forward to graduating. It’s a huge milestone in everyone’s life. Graduating brings a sense of freedom and accomplishment to anyone who does it. High- school really sucks sometimes. The light at the end of the tunnel for most teenagers is walking across that field/ stage and getting a diploma of completion. But now, because of COVID-19 (the Corona Virus), that milestone is being stripped from a lot of these teenagers.

     These kids have waited for twelve years for something that should have been guaranteed. Yes, they will still get their diploma, but they won’t have the ceremony that they most definitely deserve. Many adults are arguing that “people are dying so these seniors shouldn’t be so upset when there’s worse things going on.” While this is true, people are dying, these young adults are being stripped of something very important to them. They have every right to be angry, upset, or sad. It may not be as important as the death of these innocent victims, but it is still important. Telling these children that they have no right to be sad is just like telling someone that they have no right to be happy when better things are happening to other people. It’s the exact same thing. You wouldn’t tell a child that they shouldn’t be happy over a good grade when there are people out there who are millionaires or have everything they ever wanted, so why tell these seniors that they have no right to be sad?

     Every emotion that these seniors are feeling are valid in every way. If you are one of the people who feel that they are overreacting, put yourself in their shoes. Imagine something that you waited almost your entire life for being stripped away. It would upset you, right? The same concept applies to the class of 2020. This is such a huge milestone in a teenagers life. They have worked almost nonstop for so many years for this. Be kind to them. Treat them with the tenderness and kindness you’d want to be treated with.

Our seniors are in pain, so show them the love you want to be shown.

Peace out, girl scout 🙂

Enjoying what we still have

“I wonder what it’s like out there. All the green. All the sounds and contaminated air. I bet I’d die if I went out there– one breath and I’d be a goner.” Emma said as she stared intensely out the window. I looked at her disgusted. I couldn’t tell if she was being serious or not.

“You are joking– right?” She continued to stare out the window and made a repulsed face then looked over at me.

“Absolutely not! Do you know how many people have died from that virus?!” I shook my head and shrugged and stood up from the couch. She looked me up and down, questioning my actions. I made my way to the back door and put my hand on the door nob. I paused to glance back at her and her eyes widened as she quickly jumped off the couch. “What are you doing?!” She questioned.

“Oh nothing. Just getting some fresh air.” I smiled at her maniacally and began to twist the door nob.

She glared at me. “That isn’t funny.”

I smiled and shrugged. “Hope I don’t get contaminated.” She stood shocked as she studied me and before she could say anything, I swung the door open and jumped outside. The soft grass beneath my feet and between my toes welcomed me as a cool breeze gently blew on my long brown hair. I looked up at Emma who had a look of horror on her face and rolled my eyes. “Oh comon Emma. It’s not that bad. It’s beautiful out here! Come on out, it’ll be fun!”

She backed away from the door, shaking her head. “You seriously think I would risk my life to have fun?! Oh no. Oh oh oh ohhhhhh no. You’re an idiot– I hope you know that. Because now you can’t come back inside this house.”

I scoffed. “Don’t you think if the air were really as deadly as you think it is, I would be coughing up my lungs by now?” I took a deep breath and exhaled, meeting her eyes that stared me down and then began looking around the room.

“That’s because… just give it a few more minutes. It’ll get to you.” she looked away and we stood for a minute without talking. I sighed and sat down in the grass, plucking pieces from the ground. I looked up at her and was still standing in the same spot, staring out the window.

I sighed again, even louder to let her know I was still alive and I looked around at my yard as I got an idea. I laughed slightly to myself and then yelled to her. “Emma! Come quick! There’s a cat out here!”

Without hesitation, she sprinted outside to me and looked desperately around, immeadilty dropping her head. “Wait a minute… There is no cat, is there?” I started laughing and shook my head.

“Nope. But now you see that its not so bad out here… right?” I asked hopefully.

She looked around and slightly smiled and shrugged. “Yeah. I guess you’re right.” She sat down beside me and we both laughed and then took in the nature around us in silence.

“Do you want to go on a walk?” I looked over at her with an overexaggerated smile, hoping she’d say yes. “I mean.  After all, there’s nothing else to do…” my voice trailed off and I started looking around at the trees and flowers blooming under the warm blue sky.

She stood anxiously and took a deep breath. “Yeah… Why not? It’s not so bad out here.” We smiled at each other and spent the rest of our day enjoying what we still had.