{"id":9701,"date":"2020-09-23T08:54:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T13:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/?p=9701"},"modified":"2020-09-23T08:55:12","modified_gmt":"2020-09-23T13:55:12","slug":"lets-get-vulnerable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2020\/09\/23\/lets-get-vulnerable\/","title":{"rendered":"Let&#8217;s Get Vulnerable."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Vulnerability has never really been a strong suit of mine. It&#8217;s something about being so open and loud about the emotions I harbor that make my stomach turn.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I feel the most vulnerable when I am writing. Writing allows me to release the words and expressions I dare not say out loud. Universe forbid that I ever say &#8220;I miss you&#8221; to someone. That&#8217;s more pride than it is vulnerability, but the two stand hand in hand for me.<\/p>\n<p>Getting me to open up to you is basically getting me to say &#8220;I love and I trust you, take my heart now.&#8221; It&#8217;s like getting to the core of an artichoke or opening up one door just to find a locked safe. You may think you know so much about me, but you&#8217;ve really just scratched the surface.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t like to think of myself as &#8220;complicated&#8221; or &#8220;hard to understand&#8221;. I just don&#8217;t allow everyone to pick at the complexities of my heart, mind and soul. That&#8217;s what being vulnerable feels like. It feels like you&#8217;re the main event at an open arena show. All eyes on you&#8217;re. You&#8217;re the star of the evening. NO THANK YOU!! I am just fine sitting backseat until I choose to drive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Being vulnerable is a choice. Vulnerability allows stable, healthy relationships. It helps to build character. I know that if I want to maintain certain relationships and friendships that I must allow vulnerability to pierce my heart and strain it in front of the ones I want to\u00a0<em>truly<\/em> see me.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s get vulnerable. Times not slowing down. We&#8217;re getting older and wiser. Don&#8217;t let a little vulnerability keep you hidden away from the truth that resides in you.<\/p>\n<p>Until next time Friends,<\/p>\n<p>A southern girl who wants to open up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vulnerability has never really been a strong suit of mine. It&#8217;s something about being so open and loud about the emotions I harbor that make my stomach turn.\u00a0 I feel the most vulnerable when I am writing. Writing allows me to release the words and expressions I dare not say out loud. Universe forbid that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2020\/09\/23\/lets-get-vulnerable\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Let&#8217;s Get Vulnerable.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":69,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[48],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9701"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/69"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9701"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9704,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9701\/revisions\/9704"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}