{"id":6673,"date":"2019-09-25T09:27:03","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T14:27:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/?p=6673"},"modified":"2019-09-25T09:27:03","modified_gmt":"2019-09-25T14:27:03","slug":"you-need-to-cut-off-negative-people-and-this-is-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2019\/09\/25\/you-need-to-cut-off-negative-people-and-this-is-why\/","title":{"rendered":"You need to cut off negative people and this is why"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure we all have had our fair share with toxic relationships whether it&#8217;s\u00a0 platonic or romantic. And we of course all had the desperate feeling of wanting to remove our self from the situation, but for some odd reason that I can&#8217;t make of- we stay.<\/p>\n<p>We continue to re-enter ourselves in toxic relationships and the only thing that you are doing is deteriorating your own energy. I know it might feel that the person or even\u00a0<em>people<\/em> love us and want the best for us. So we stay in the relationship despite all the signs that your body is telling you to get away.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0 I&#8217;m going to say this and I want you to really take this to heart: Stop ignoring you <em>body<\/em>, stop ignoring you\u00a0<em>soul, <\/em>stop ignoring your\u00a0<em>mental health, <\/em>and <em>cut them off.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 If they&#8217;re\u00a0 not doing anything in your life to help your grow into the person you want to be.<em> Cut them off.\u00a0<\/em>If every time you talk to them and their energy does not match the energy they are giving them. <em>Cut them off.<\/em><em>\u00a0\u00a0<\/em>If they make you feel bad about how you look or yourself.\u00a0<em>Cut them off.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em>If they continue to say harsh things to you after you told them you don&#8217;t approve.\u00a0<em>Sweetie, please cut them off.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know it might seem harsh and you probably don&#8217;t want people to see you as a mean person, but in all honestly stop caring about what people think about you. Start putting yourself first. Learn your self worth and begin putting your self up on pedestal so high that you can&#8217;t even see the top of your head. I know that might seem dramatic or extra but I promise you it is. However, it is <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>needed.<\/strong><\/span> You deserve friends that appreciate what you have to say. You deserve a significant other that listens to you when you talk and wants to hear more. You deserve people in your life to know your self worth and to respect you.<\/p>\n<p>If you are now thinking about the people in your life and trying to decide if they are right for you. Here are some signs of toxic people.<\/p>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: circle;\">\n<li>If they are manipulative.<\/li>\n<li>Judgmental about everything you do.<\/li>\n<li>They give backhanded compliments.<\/li>\n<li>They have no respect for boundaries.<\/li>\n<li>If they make you feel guilty.<\/li>\n<li>If you feel overlooked in their presence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I know this may all sound like too much, and you maybe feel like you will be alone if you do cut off all your toxic relationships. However, believe me when I say this it is better to be alone than feel alone in a group of people that are supposed to be your friends.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0038\/2117\/4830\/products\/IMG_2560_300x300.jpg?v=1560270643\" alt=\"Image result for know your worth\" width=\"230\" height=\"231\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure we all have had our fair share with toxic relationships whether it&#8217;s\u00a0 platonic or romantic. And we of course all had the desperate feeling of wanting to remove our self from the situation, but for some odd reason that I can&#8217;t make of- we stay. We continue to re-enter ourselves in toxic relationships &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2019\/09\/25\/you-need-to-cut-off-negative-people-and-this-is-why\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;You need to cut off negative people and this is why&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":49,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6673"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/49"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6673"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6673\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6739,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6673\/revisions\/6739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}