{"id":24147,"date":"2026-10-29T13:57:21","date_gmt":"2026-10-29T18:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/?p=24147"},"modified":"2026-10-29T13:57:21","modified_gmt":"2026-10-29T18:57:21","slug":"well-darn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2026\/10\/29\/well-darn\/","title":{"rendered":"Well Darn."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Haven&#8217;t been able to watch the Ghosts movie. I erm. Shrugs. Guess y&#8217;all get to hear about my journey to lessen screen time. Buckle in because it&#8217;s a LOT of stuff I&#8217;ve started doing.<\/p>\n<p>I guess I&#8217;ll start with my current favorite thing that I&#8217;m working on right now. JOURNALING!!!! Yes. The thing that we were supposed to do every day last year? Yeah I&#8217;m doing that by choice. And yeah. I&#8217;m fweaking loving it. It&#8217;s so helpful for coming up with writing ideas or getting emotions out. It&#8217;s almost like&#8230; everyone ever has recommended journaling, and it&#8217;s actually a good thing?? Yeah YEAH yeah. Whatever. Just let me talk about it, okay? Journaling is something that I&#8217;ve tried about one million billion times in the past. Like I have TRIED, but it never seemed to stick. I don&#8217;t actually know why I started journaling again. It just felt good. It felt good to write&#8230; And that writing got me off my phone. Being off my phone made me to want to start writing in my journal even more. Didn&#8217;t even mean to do that. Just got creative or whateva&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Even though the journaling thing was an accident, this next thing wasn&#8217;t. That thing is EMBROIDERY! I haven&#8217;t been able to embroider in a bit because my current project is at home, but I&#8217;ve fallen in love with embroidery thread. Mostly I&#8217;ve been using it for friendship bracelets&#8230; shut up. It&#8217;s a nice repitetive motion! I need guides and stuff so it didn&#8217;t work super well&#8230; but I&#8217;m still having a grand time with it!<\/p>\n<p>Right now I&#8217;m working on a project that was completely an accidental &#8220;off the phone&#8221; strat. It&#8217;s something fun called HAND SEWING MY HALLOWEEN COSTUME THE WEEK OF HALLOWEEN. I know I&#8217;ve complained about this to some of you, but I promise I&#8217;m having a lot of fun. Sewing requires a lot of attention, more than embroidery. While embroidery still has you using a needle, sewing needles hurt much much more. I&#8217;ve stabbed my shoulder so many times while trying to pin the sleeve to the middle part. Guys I am DYING. Dying of a really fun time.<\/p>\n<p>Because of wanting to make my own costume, I&#8217;ve ended up on a side of YouTube that really wants me to stay off the internet and do this thing called &#8220;hobbies I enjoy&#8221;? Whatever that is. Sewing\u00a0 Youtubers and just people that make think pieces are really interesting to listen to. They&#8217;re the only kinds of creators that I allow myself to watch anymore. Internet drama? Things that don&#8217;t matter? Situations I don&#8217;t care about? Commentary YouTubers I&#8217;ve been watching for years? How about ambient music, ladies who are really passionate about their analog hobbies, think-pieces, writing advice, and creative works. Yeah. Oh yeah. That&#8217;s what Papa wants to see.<\/p>\n<p>I have a limit to only be on Instagram and other social apps for I think three hours. I also have a limit where I can only be on my phone until 9 pm. I ALSO have a limit where I can only be on social apps for like 15 minutes at a time. AND I deleted YouTube off my phone, so I can only watch it on my computer. I feel like a loser, but I&#8217;ve genuinely been feeling better about myself and my mental health.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Please don&#8217;t think that I&#8217;m just spewing bullcrap. I&#8217;m not saying we should all burn our phones and run into the wild. While that would be fun for about an afternoon, I think that would lead to a lot more bad than good.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>To continue with my Hippie nonsense, my desire to get off my phone has also inspired my dad to stay off HIS phone. And my mom took up a hobby to stay off HER phone. I didn&#8217;t inspire my brother or his girlfriend because they&#8217;re the ones that inspired me to go on this journey. BOO!!! JOURNEY??? LOSER!!! Okay anyway. I feel like I&#8217;ve had more time to connect with my family because we&#8217;re more present.<\/p>\n<p>This has extended to my friends. I don&#8217;t think that I&#8217;ve inspired anyone to do anything, but I&#8217;ve been more open spending time with those friends when they&#8217;re free. I&#8217;ve always had time to spend with others, but in the past I would rather just be on my stupid dumb idiot dumb phone. Now I want that thing away from me most of the time. I weened myself off with the screen time stuff and having a fun time away from my phone.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want you to get off your phone. Well I do, but I don&#8217;t want you to unless YOU want to. The force of making this kind of change is what makes it so very hard. I&#8217;m not gonna preach or anything. I&#8217;m just gonna leave this here for any of your, just in case you need inspiration to get off your talking brick. Okay. That&#8217;s enough for now. ByeBye!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Haven&#8217;t been able to watch the Ghosts movie. I erm. Shrugs. Guess y&#8217;all get to hear about my journey to lessen screen time. Buckle in because it&#8217;s a LOT of stuff I&#8217;ve started doing. I guess I&#8217;ll start with my current favorite thing that I&#8217;m working on right now. JOURNALING!!!! Yes. The thing that we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2026\/10\/29\/well-darn\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Well Darn.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":111,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24147"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/111"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24147"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24147\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24148,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24147\/revisions\/24148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24147"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24147"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24147"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}