{"id":24106,"date":"2026-10-29T09:53:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-29T14:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/?p=24106"},"modified":"2026-10-29T09:58:28","modified_gmt":"2026-10-29T14:58:28","slug":"my-boyfriend-my-best-friend-my-opp-allat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2026\/10\/29\/my-boyfriend-my-best-friend-my-opp-allat\/","title":{"rendered":"My Boyfriend, My Best Friend, My Opp, Allat."},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On Monday, October 19th, 2026, my <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">boyfriend<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Tre, and I celebrated our six months together. Before six months of dating, we had been each other&#8217;s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">best friends<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0for years on end. Thanks to a mutual friend of ours who got us together back in April, Tre and I have been living in romantic bliss. Although we still act like best friends and sometimes each other&#8217;s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enemies<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I love my boyfriend for many reasons (obviously). Aside from his attractiveness, I absolutely adore his personality, mannerisms, and hobbies. Naturally, he is very introverted and keeps to himself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When he\u2019s around his homeboys, his entire persona does a 180. He\u2019s loud, trolling, and roughhousing with them. But when he\u2019s with me, he becomes soft-spoken and kind and always compliments me. This is the boyfriend part of him. His hobbies, such as playing video games or going to the gym, are expected, but one of his hobbies that surprised me is how much he loves puzzles. I didn\u2019t expect that from someone like him, but now that I\u2019ve been with him for half a year, it makes a lot more sense. One of his mannerisms that has grown on me is how he gestures with his hands as he speaks. I didn\u2019t realize that until a month ago, which is quite funny to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The other part of Tre would be him still acting like a close friend. The way he brags about making sacks during his football games, as if I understand the terminology and positions. Our conversations would be me interrupting him every few minutes, asking about a certain phrase.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI was able to make a sack during the first three minutes.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cA sack?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI tackled the quarterback.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOh yeah, I saw that!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He also replays the footage for me to watch every Saturday afternoon, in case I couldn\u2019t go to his game. We also joke around with each other with childish insults, all while knowing we\u2019re down bad for each other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That ties into the \u201copp\u201d or enemy part of him when he decides to ragebait me. Very similar to the best friend part of him but taken a step further\u2014s<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aying things that he knows will piss me off in half a second. For example, I used to be in the band but quit my tenth-grade year. Even then, I\u2019m still passionate enough to want to play in college. Tre, however, plays football and has been playing for years. Every now and then, he\u2019ll make comments about band all while being loud and wrong. It always unlocks a deep rage within me, so I have to take a step back to breathe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s all I got for my blog\u2026 I love dat boy, and he loves me!! I&#8217;m not sharing any pictures of him because he wants to stay anonymous (somewhat). Bye bye!!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"988\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"24117\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_9494-988x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_9494-988x1024.jpeg 988w, https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_9494-289x300.jpeg 289w, https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_9494-768x796.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/IMG_9494.jpeg 1015w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">lalalaalala<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Monday, October 19th, 2026, my boyfriend, Tre, and I celebrated our six months together. Before six months of dating, we had been each other&#8217;s best friends\u00a0for years on end. Thanks to a mutual friend of ours who got us together back in April, Tre and I have been living in romantic bliss. Although we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2026\/10\/29\/my-boyfriend-my-best-friend-my-opp-allat\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;My Boyfriend, My Best Friend, My Opp, Allat.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":125,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24106"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/125"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24106"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24106\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24183,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24106\/revisions\/24183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24106"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24106"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24106"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}