{"id":13904,"date":"2021-11-10T10:13:07","date_gmt":"2021-11-10T16:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/?p=13904"},"modified":"2021-11-10T10:13:10","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T16:13:10","slug":"life-hurts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2021\/11\/10\/life-hurts\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Hurts."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I kind of thought this blog would be more of a &#8220;things to do when life hurts&#8221; type of deal. But now, sitting down to write, I&#8217;ve realized that I don&#8217;t know exactly what to do when life hurts, other than just&#8230; let it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I am going to be completely honest. It has been a pretty hard week. Now, I won&#8217;t get into specifics, because after all this still is a blogspace- not a personal diary. But I figured there is some value in letting others know when you are having trouble. Even when you just speak into the void of internet users in passing.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone has these times when you miss home, family, or some sense of what normalcy used to be.&nbsp; Times when whatever higher power that be throws you something you aren&#8217;t fully prepared for. Those times are upon <em>me&nbsp;<\/em>at the moment, and I&#8217;m not gonna lie&#8230; it sucks. But I have learned, when life hurts, there truly is no other way to get past it than, let it. Let yourself feel it. Truly, deeply feel it.<\/p>\n<p>Tears. Headaches. Sadness. Longing. Fear. Pain.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Because letting yourself feel the pain deeply also opens up your heart to feel the support you get deeply too.<\/p>\n<p>Hugs. Phone calls from home. Words of encouragement. Favorite shows. Chocolate. Warm sweaters. Music.<\/p>\n<p>So, I guess I&#8217;m writing this blog as a comfort to myself. To reassure myself that there are reasons for things. That the hurt I am feeling right now is leading me to write a blog that someone can relate to. That the hurt I am feeling right now will encourage me to feel things deeply- good&nbsp;<em>and&nbsp;<\/em>bad.<\/p>\n<p>I needed somewhere to speak all of this, so whoever is listening, thank you. And if you relate to this, I am here. Rant to me. Cry to me. I am always glad to be a friend.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;Adele&nbsp; &lt;3<\/p>\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I kind of thought this blog would be more of a &#8220;things to do when life hurts&#8221; type of deal. But now, sitting down to write, I&#8217;ve realized that I don&#8217;t know exactly what to do when life hurts, other than just&#8230; let it.&nbsp; I am going to be completely honest. It has been a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/2021\/11\/10\/life-hurts\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Life Hurts.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":70,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13904"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/70"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13904"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13904\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13929,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13904\/revisions\/13929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13904"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13904"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.msabrookhaven.org\/literary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13904"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}